fsnotify: replace inode pointer with an object id

The event inode field is used only for comparison in queue merges and
cannot be dereferenced after handle_event(), because it does not hold a
refcount on the inode.

Replace it with an abstract id to do the same thing.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20200319151022.31456-8-amir73il@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>