nbd: protect cmd->status with cmd->lock

We already do this for the most part, except in timeout and clear_req.
For the timeout case we take the lock after we grab a ref on the config,
but that isn't really necessary because we're safe to touch the cmd at
this point, so just move the order around.

For the clear_req cause this is initiated by the user, so again is safe.

Reviewed-by: Mike Christie <mchristi@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>