block: add an API to atomically update queue limits

Add a new queue_limits_{start,commit}_update pair of functions that
allows taking an atomic snapshot of queue limits, update it, and
commit it if it passes validity checking.  Also use the low-level
validation helper to implement blk_set_default_limits instead of
duplicating the initialization.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Damien Le Moal <dlemoal@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240213073425.1621680-5-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>