nvme-fc: fail new connections to a deleted host or remote port

[ Upstream commit 9e0e8dac ]

The lldd may have made calls to delete a remote port or local port and
the delete is in progress when the cli then attempts to create a new
controller. Currently, this proceeds without error although it can't be
very successful.

Fix this by validating that both the host port and remote port are
present when a new controller is to be created.

Signed-off-by: James Smart <james.smart@broadcom.com>
Reviewed-by: Himanshu Madhani <himanshu.madhani@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Sasha Levin <sashal@kernel.org>