btrfs: qgroup: Refactor btrfs_qgroup_insert_dirty_extent()

Refactor btrfs_qgroup_insert_dirty_extent() function, to two functions:
1. btrfs_qgroup_insert_dirty_extent_nolock()
   Almost the same with original code.
   For delayed_ref usage, which has delayed refs locked.

   Change the return value type to int, since caller never needs the
   pointer, but only needs to know if they need to free the allocated
   memory.

2. btrfs_qgroup_insert_dirty_extent()
   The more encapsulated version.

   Will do the delayed_refs lock, memory allocation, quota enabled check
   and other things.

The original design is to keep exported functions to minimal, but since
more btrfs hacks exposed, like replacing path in balance, we need to
record dirty extents manually, so we have to add such functions.

Also, add comment for both functions, to info developers how to keep
qgroup correct when doing hacks.

Cc: Mark Fasheh <mfasheh@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Qu Wenruo <quwenruo@cn.fujitsu.com>
Reviewed-and-Tested-by: Goldwyn Rodrigues <rgoldwyn@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <clm@fb.com>