gliolib: set hooks in gpiochip_set_irq_hooks()

Centralize setting the irq_request/release_resources callbacks
in one function since we'll be adding more callbacks to that.

Also fix the removal of the callback overrides: this should
only be done if we actually installed our own callback there.

Signed-off-by: Hans Verkuil <hans.verkuil@cisco.com>
Signed-off-by: Linus Walleij <linus.walleij@linaro.org>