md: fix mddev->kobj lifetime

Once a kobject is initialized, the containing object should not be
directly freed.  So delay initialization until it is added.  Also
remove the kobject_del call as the last put will remove the kobject as
well.  The explicitly delete isn't needed here, and dropping it will
simplify further fixes.

With this md_free now does not need to check that ->gendisk is non-NULL
as it is always set by the time that kobject_init is called on
mddev->kobj.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Logan Gunthorpe <logang@deltatee.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>