scsi: target: Move sess cmd counter to new struct

iSCSI needs to wait on outstanding commands like how SRP and the FC/FCoE
drivers do. It can't use target_stop_session() because for MCS support we
can't stop the entire session during recovery because if other connections
are OK then we want to be able to continue to execute I/O on them.

Move the per session cmd counters to a new struct so iSCSI can allocate
them per connection. The xcopy code can also just not allocate in the
future since it doesn't need to track commands.

Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <michael.christie@oracle.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230319015620.96006-2-michael.christie@oracle.com
Reviewed-by: Maurizio Lombardi <mlombard@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>