mptcp: use OPTION_MPTCP_MPJ_SYNACK in subflow_finish_connect()

subflow_finish_connect() uses four fields (backup, join_id, thmac, none)
that may contain garbage unless OPTION_MPTCP_MPJ_SYNACK has been set
in mptcp_parse_option()

Fixes: f296234c ("mptcp: Add handling of incoming MP_JOIN requests")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Cc: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Cc: Peter Krystad <peter.krystad@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Matthieu Baerts <matttbe@kernel.org>
Cc: Mat Martineau <martineau@kernel.org>
Cc: Geliang Tang <geliang.tang@linux.dev>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Mat Martineau <martineau@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240111194917.4044654-4-edumazet@google.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>