smc: initialize IB transport incl. PD, MR, QP, CQ, event, WR

Prepare the link for RDMA transport:
Create a queue pair (QP) and move it into the state Ready-To-Receive (RTR).

Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>