ovl: update of dentry revalidate flags after copy up

After copy up, we may need to update d_flags if upper dentry is on a
remote fs and lower dentries are not.

Add helpers to allow incremental update of the revalidate flags.

Fixes: bccece1e ("ovl: allow remote upper")
Reviewed-by: Gao Xiang <hsiangkao@linux.alibaba.com>
Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>