Bluetooth: MGMT: Add conditions for setting HCI_CONN_FLAG_REMOTE_WAKEUP

HCI_CONN_FLAG_REMOTE_WAKEUP can only be set if device can be programmed
in the allowlist which in case of device using RPA requires LL Privacy
support to be enabled.

Link: https://bugzilla.kernel.org/show_bug.cgi?id=215768


Signed-off-by: Luiz Augusto von Dentz <luiz.von.dentz@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Marcel Holtmann <marcel@holtmann.org>