xfs: convert open-coded xfs_rtword_t pointer accesses to helper

There are a bunch of places where we use open-coded logic to find a
pointer to an xfs_rtword_t within a rt bitmap buffer.  Convert all that
to helper functions for better type safety.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>