drm/fb-helper: Consolidate CONFIG_DRM_FBDEV_LEAK_PHYS_SMEM

Consolidate all handling of CONFIG_DRM_FBDEV_LEAK_PHYS_SMEM by
making the module parameter optional in drm_fb_helper.c.

Without the config option, modules can set smem_start in struct
fb_info for internal usage, but not export if to userspace. The
address can only be exported by enabling the option and setting
the module parameter. Also update the comment.

Signed-off-by: Thomas Zimmermann <tzimmermann@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Javier Martinez Canillas <javierm@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Zack Rusin <zackr@vmware.com>
Tested-by: Sui <Jingfeng&lt;suijingfeng@loongson.cn>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20230320150751.20399-8-tzimmermann@suse.de