nvme: paring quiesce/unquiesce

The current blk_mq_quiesce_queue() and blk_mq_unquiesce_queue() always
stops and starts the queue unconditionally. And there can be concurrent
quiesce/unquiesce coming from different unrelated code paths, so
unquiesce may come unexpectedly and start queue too early.

Prepare for supporting concurrent quiesce/unquiesce from multiple
contexts, so that we can address the above issue.

NVMe has very complicated quiesce/unquiesce use pattern, add one atomic
bit for makeiing sure that blk-mq quiece/unquiesce is always called in
pair.

Signed-off-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20211014081710.1871747-5-ming.lei@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>