md/raid10: switch to use md_account_bio() for io accounting

Make sure that 'active_io' will represent inflight io instead of io that
is dispatching, and io accounting from all levels will be consistent.

Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Xiao Ni <xni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230621165110.1498313-6-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com