ice: add support for virtchnl_queue_select.[tx|rx]_queues bitmap

The VF driver can call VIRTCHNL_OP_[ENABLE|DISABLE]_QUEUES separately
for each queue. Add support for virtchnl_queue_select.[tx|rx]_queues
bitmap which is used to indicate which queues to enable and disable.

Add tracing of VF Tx/Rx per queue enable state to avoid enabling enabled
queues and disabling disabled queues. Add total queues enabled count and
clear ICE_VF_STATE_QS_ENA when count is zero.

Signed-off-by: Paul Greenwalt <paul.greenwalt@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Peng Huang <peng.huang@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>