mptcp: Make kernel path manager check for userspace-managed sockets

Userspace-managed sockets should not have their subflows or
advertisements changed by the kernel path manager.

v3: Use helper function for PM mode (Paolo Abeni)

Acked-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mat Martineau <mathew.j.martineau@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>