net_sched: Use struct_size() and flex_array_size() helpers

Make use of the struct_size() and flex_array_size() helpers instead of
an open-coded version, in order to avoid any potential type mistakes
or integer overflows that, in the worse scenario, could lead to heap
overflows.

Link: https://github.com/KSPP/linux/issues/160
Signed-off-by: Gustavo A. R. Silva <gustavoars@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20210928193107.GA262595@embeddedor
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>