bpf: Add BPF_FETCH field / create atomic_fetch_add instruction

The BPF_FETCH field can be set in bpf_insn.imm, for BPF_ATOMIC
instructions, in order to have the previous value of the
atomically-modified memory location loaded into the src register
after an atomic op is carried out.

Suggested-by: Yonghong Song <yhs@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Brendan Jackman <jackmanb@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20210114181751.768687-7-jackmanb@google.com