drm/xe: Rework rebinding

Instead of handling the vm's rebind fence separately,
which is error prone if they are not strictly ordered,
attach rebind fences as kernel fences to the vm's resv.

Fixes: dd08ebf6 ("drm/xe: Introduce a new DRM driver for Intel GPUs")
Cc: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>
Cc: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v6.8+
Signed-off-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240327091136.3271-3-thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com