net: use skb_queue_empty_lockless() in busy poll contexts

Busy polling usually runs without locks.
Let's use skb_queue_empty_lockless() instead of skb_queue_empty()

Also uses READ_ONCE() in __skb_try_recv_datagram() to address
a similar potential problem.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>