nvme-pci: factor out a nvme_pci_alloc_dev helper

Add a helper that allocates the nvme_dev structure up to the point where
we can call nvme_init_ctrl.  This pairs with the free_ctrl method and can
thus be used to cleanup the teardown path and make it more symmetric.

Note that this now calls nvme_init_ctrl a lot earlier during probing,
which also means the per-controller character device shows up earlier.
Due to the controller state no commnds can be send on it, but it might
make sense to delay the cdev registration until nvme_init_ctrl_finish.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Chaitanya Kulkarni <kch@nvidia.com>
Tested-by Gerd Bayer <gbayer@linxu.ibm.com>