net/mlx4_en: Use PTYS register to query ethtool settings

- If dev cap MLX4_DEV_CAP_FLAG2_ETH_PROT_CTRL is ON, query PTYS register to fill ethtool settings.
else use default values.
- Use autoneg port cap and dev backplane autoneg cap to reprort autoneg interface capbilities.
- Fix typo in mlx4_en_port_state struct field (transciver to transceiver).

Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Amir Vadai <amirv@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>