net: dsa: consolidate phylink creation

The code in port.c and slave.c creating the phylink instance is very
similar - let's consolidate this into a single function.

Signed-off-by: Russell King (Oracle) <rmk+kernel@armlinux.org.uk>
Reviewed-by: Marek Behún <kabel@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Andrew Lunn <andrew@lunn.ch>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>