nfp: tls: add/delete TLS TX connections

This patch adds the functionality to add and delete TLS connections on
the NFP, received from the kernel TLS callbacks.

Make use of the common control message (CCM) infrastructure to propagate
the kernel state to firmware.

Signed-off-by: Dirk van der Merwe <dirk.vandermerwe@netronome.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>