netfilter: conntrack: handle ->destroy hook via nat_ops instead

The nat module already exposes a few functions to the conntrack core.
Move the nat extension destroy hook to it.

After this, no conntrack extension needs a destroy hook.
'struct nf_ct_ext_type' and the register/unregister api can be removed
in a followup patch.

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>