vhost: move worker thread fields to new struct

This is just a prep patch. It moves the worker related fields to a new
vhost_worker struct and moves the code around to create some helpers that
will be used in the next patch.

Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <michael.christie@oracle.com>
Acked-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner (Microsoft) <brauner@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>