net/smc: no WR buffer wait for terminating link group

Avoid waiting for a free work request buffer, if the link group
is already terminating.

Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>