fs: dlm: filter ourself midcomms calls

It makes no sense to call midcomms/lowcomms functionality for the local
node as socket functionality is only required for remote nodes. This
patch filters those calls in the upper layer of lockspace membership
handling instead of doing it in midcomms/lowcomms layer as they should
never be aware of local nodeid.

Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>