md: switch to ->check_events for media change notifications

md is the last driver using the legacy media_changed method.  Switch
it over to (not so) new ->clear_events approach, which also removes the
need for the ->revalidate_disk method.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
[axboe: remove unused 'bdops' variable in disk_clear_events()]
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>