btrfs: Remove extent_io_ops::merge_extent_hook callback

This callback is used only for data and free space inodes. Such inodes
are guaranteed to have their extent_io_tree::private_data set to the
inode struct. Exploit this fact to directly call the function. Also give
it a more descriptive name. No functional changes.

Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: Nikolay Borisov <nborisov@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>